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How many men can identify a good woman?...

THE UGLY TRUTH



They say they want TRUE LOVE but all they want is a checklist - Is he perfect, is he handsome, is he a doctor, is he rich, for you men who fit the criteria they are not sleeping with you, they are sleeping with the carefully calculated set of choices........money over substance, looks over soul and polish over principles.

.I saw the above post by a friend on FB and I replied thus:
Mhnn..at first read,the female instinct in me wanted to attack u outrightly but then I must accept the sad truth but it seems to me that there are few people with caharacter these days1.Its almost unbelievable cos u and I would readily dismiss it as baseless assumption but it is our map of reality.I keep wondering what the next generation that will be trained by this generation would be like.IMO,the men love bad women,hardly stay long with good women and hardly see beyond their balls when the bad woman is by their def "sexy".How many of u guys can identify a good woman when u see one and how many of u are good anyway?God is a good match maker anyday!.
 
You can't imagine the thread of reactions this reply generated!.
I will say it anyday,anytime,wherever,a nd to whomever cares to listen many young Nigerian men cannot tell a good woman when they see one.They are blinded by their selfish desires,they can hardly see beyond their balls.They keep hounding you with empty promises of I love you's,expecting you to remain committed forever while they would never do same.Even the ones who claim to be christians,only a handful of them can identify a woman of worth and stay committed to his promise.I rest my case here.Bring it on if you disagree!

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Gerald said…
OMG!Amanda are u serious?Do u seriously think that men cannot identify good women?I wouldn't generalize this if I were u but these days being what they are now,I could hardly match you with a stronger arguement.As for me,I know a good woman when I see one.You may want to give us xteristics of a good woman here or sample the men's opinion of whom they think a good woman is?what do u think?
September 10, 2011 at 9:40 AM
Ogar said…
Haha...this babe u r so hilarious!How about me who identified u as a good woman,have u considered me?.Better answer me oh
September 10, 2011 at 9:47 AM
Nwando said…
wow,wow,wow!!!Amanda its like u x-rayed my thought and replicated here.oops...I don't know what the problem is but d guys seem to prefer women of easy virtues who would open their legs to them.They don't think it is cool to be God fearing and act it.It is cooler to be God fearing and not act it,how absurd!.What kind of children will this generation have?what are the standards for d next generation?
September 17, 2011 at 1:44 PM
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