Why do they keep staring?

In these few years God has blessed me with on earth,I have seen so many things:the good,the bad,the ugly.I am so curious about men and their way of thinking.He is driving on the road,he is looking,in the office,he is looking,in the park,he is looking,even in church he is looking...Chei!what is it?.He gladly boasts that every man is wired that way,he couldn't be different.

Ladies,have you ever been looked at by a guy so badly that you almost puked?There are those whose stares make you feel like smacking them behind and saying,don't be silly!.There are others whose stares make you feel embarrased and uncomfortable but there are those who make you feel like a queen made to be worshipped.Hahah...yea,I know that feeling...hey,don't worry the feeling is mutual.I like it too.I mean who doesn't want to feel wanted?.

However,I am particularly curious about why some men just go bonkers at the sight of a woman.Why his nose will trace a perfume to the owner?Why his mouth will hang open beacuse he just saw her behind?.Why his ears will grow longer than his head because he just heard her voice?.Why his loins will suddenly bulge because he just saw her legs...Why do they keep staring anyway?

Maybe the men should know that there are some stares that just place a sign on you that the lady can read as "SAY NO!".Maybe men should know that some stares are reserved for the bedroom only.Maybe men should know that most women want to be appreciated not cheapened by your eyes.Maybe men should know that some stares present you as below classy...who cares...did you say?Well,maybe men should know that some stares could cause you to see even that, you are not prepared to see...hell!Why would you stare into hell?

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Anonymous said…

self control is king and key. the flesh has to be crucified

November 8, 2010 at 3:39 AM

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