THE UGLY TRUTH
They say they want TRUE LOVE but all they want is a checklist - Is he perfect, is he handsome, is he a doctor, is he rich, for you men who fit the criteria they are not sleeping with you, they are sleeping with the carefully calculated set of choices........money over substance, looks over soul and polish over principles.
.I saw the above post by a friend on FB and I replied thus:
Mhnn..at first read,the female instinct in me wanted to attack u outrightly but then I must accept the sad truth but it seems to me that there are few people with caharacter these days1.Its almost unbelievable cos u and I would readily dismiss it as baseless assumption but it is our map of reality.I keep wondering what the next generation that will be trained by this generation would be like.IMO,the men love bad women,hardly stay long with good women and hardly see beyond their balls when the bad woman is by their def "sexy".How many of u guys can identify a good woman when u see one and how many of u are good anyway?God is a good match maker anyday!.
You can't imagine the thread of reactions this reply generated!.
I will say it anyday,anytime,wherever,a nd to whomever cares to listen many young Nigerian men cannot tell a good woman when they see one.They are blinded by their selfish desires,they can hardly see beyond their balls.They keep hounding you with empty promises of I love you's,expecting you to remain committed forever while they would never do same.Even the ones who claim to be christians,only a handful of them can identify a woman of worth and stay committed to his promise.I rest my case here.Bring it on if you disagree!
They say they want TRUE LOVE but all they want is a checklist - Is he perfect, is he handsome, is he a doctor, is he rich, for you men who fit the criteria they are not sleeping with you, they are sleeping with the carefully calculated set of choices........money over substance, looks over soul and polish over principles.
.I saw the above post by a friend on FB and I replied thus:
Mhnn..at first read,the female instinct in me wanted to attack u outrightly but then I must accept the sad truth but it seems to me that there are few people with caharacter these days1.Its almost unbelievable cos u and I would readily dismiss it as baseless assumption but it is our map of reality.I keep wondering what the next generation that will be trained by this generation would be like.IMO,the men love bad women,hardly stay long with good women and hardly see beyond their balls when the bad woman is by their def "sexy".How many of u guys can identify a good woman when u see one and how many of u are good anyway?God is a good match maker anyday!.
You can't imagine the thread of reactions this reply generated!.
I will say it anyday,anytime,wherever,a nd to whomever cares to listen many young Nigerian men cannot tell a good woman when they see one.They are blinded by their selfish desires,they can hardly see beyond their balls.They keep hounding you with empty promises of I love you's,expecting you to remain committed forever while they would never do same.Even the ones who claim to be christians,only a handful of them can identify a woman of worth and stay committed to his promise.I rest my case here.Bring it on if you disagree!
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