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Money or love!

Have you ever been in such a situation that you are in love with someone more than you believe he/she loves you and yet someone else whom you have no feeling for loves you more than you can possibly love anyone?
It's weird and quite complex but very real for a dear friend of mine who is more or less in a dilemma now.He want's this babe so badly it hurts and she is in love with a guy who seems not to love her as much.He has tried to prove his love to her by being kind to her and going out of his way just to please her.She doesn't even seem to notice it,instead she goes on and on about how she is getting on with the other guy.For my friend,he is fighting a worthy battle,and I call it a loose battle.huh?Yes,I mean absolute-factly.

How can you waste your time on a woman who is clearly in love with  another and is everly proud to resound her news to anyone who cares to listen including yourself?.Come to think of it,if my friend ever convinced this babe(which I doubt he can do anyway,given his unromantic nature),and she quits her relationship,maybe by his constant presence(which is the only thing going for him),since the main guy is hardly available for the babe,wouldn't this babe live in regret for the rest of her life,blaming him for making a wrong choice,especially when they have issues in their relationship which is inevitable in any relationship.-*wink*.

No doubt,my good friend is quite comfortable and owns the house he lives in a big city,has a good job and can easily afford himself a vacation in any part of the world.Yet,this babe is not tripped one bit.The guy she is dying for has nothing compared to my friend o,yet this babe no shake.I doff
my hat o,honestly.Who says there are no women with focus and raw passion pursuing their desire?mhn...They are everywhere.It is not written on the face o jare.It's just that the empty vessels make the most noise.

The truth is that,in this time and age where money dictates all our actions and decisions,one could easily call this babe a mumu o.how person wen dem put sugar for im mouth,go throway am?the matter tire me too,no be small thing.I have seen her a couple of times:pretty,witty,calm and well mannered.Even as a lady I was a little(just a little o )*wink* intimidated by these obvious qualities.She is what I will call every man's dream.It is often said that there is a thin line between delusion and confidence.Which is it now for this fine lady?She will readily make you believe it is confidence working for her and to me she doesn't seem like one walking in delusion at all,unless she cries in her closet and wears a plastic smile always for us all.

This could be the case of so many people out there,which do you choose?love or money?Whichever you choose be confident about it and be sure it will back you up in case of eventualities.Life is complex.Which rules the world,money or love?Your guess is as good as mine.

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Anonymous said…
Money or love?.Women Naija will choose money over love anyday.Not just saying,I had a first hand experience.

Loving ur blog sha.got a new follower
April 9, 2011 at 10:07 AM
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