Skip to main content

Money or love!

Have you ever been in such a situation that you are in love with someone more than you believe he/she loves you and yet someone else whom you have no feeling for loves you more than you can possibly love anyone?
It's weird and quite complex but very real for a dear friend of mine who is more or less in a dilemma now.He want's this babe so badly it hurts and she is in love with a guy who seems not to love her as much.He has tried to prove his love to her by being kind to her and going out of his way just to please her.She doesn't even seem to notice it,instead she goes on and on about how she is getting on with the other guy.For my friend,he is fighting a worthy battle,and I call it a loose battle.huh?Yes,I mean absolute-factly.

How can you waste your time on a woman who is clearly in love with  another and is everly proud to resound her news to anyone who cares to listen including yourself?.Come to think of it,if my friend ever convinced this babe(which I doubt he can do anyway,given his unromantic nature),and she quits her relationship,maybe by his constant presence(which is the only thing going for him),since the main guy is hardly available for the babe,wouldn't this babe live in regret for the rest of her life,blaming him for making a wrong choice,especially when they have issues in their relationship which is inevitable in any relationship.-*wink*.

No doubt,my good friend is quite comfortable and owns the house he lives in a big city,has a good job and can easily afford himself a vacation in any part of the world.Yet,this babe is not tripped one bit.The guy she is dying for has nothing compared to my friend o,yet this babe no shake.I doff
my hat o,honestly.Who says there are no women with focus and raw passion pursuing their desire?mhn...They are everywhere.It is not written on the face o jare.It's just that the empty vessels make the most noise.

The truth is that,in this time and age where money dictates all our actions and decisions,one could easily call this babe a mumu o.how person wen dem put sugar for im mouth,go throway am?the matter tire me too,no be small thing.I have seen her a couple of times:pretty,witty,calm and well mannered.Even as a lady I was a little(just a little o )*wink* intimidated by these obvious qualities.She is what I will call every man's dream.It is often said that there is a thin line between delusion and confidence.Which is it now for this fine lady?She will readily make you believe it is confidence working for her and to me she doesn't seem like one walking in delusion at all,unless she cries in her closet and wears a plastic smile always for us all.

This could be the case of so many people out there,which do you choose?love or money?Whichever you choose be confident about it and be sure it will back you up in case of eventualities.Life is complex.Which rules the world,money or love?Your guess is as good as mine.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Money or love?.Women Naija will choose money over love anyday.Not just saying,I had a first hand experience.

Loving ur blog sha.got a new follower
April 9, 2011 at 10:07 AM
Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

One Lovely Blog Award

*Clearing my throat to make this announcement*Ladies and gentleman,yours truly was passed an award!.Wow!I am megally excited as in *wipe dirt* excited!.Thanks to you The Relentless Builder for passing me this award.It's my first after 72 posts.Ese gan jare...imeela o,Nagode. Well...there are rules to follow: Link back to the person who gave you the award  Complete the form below Tell seven random things about yourself Nominate 15 bloggers Chei...ok, here comes Mandy's style following the rules... QUESTIONS: Name your favorite color Ok...mhn,I am not particularly a colour person.I just love good things as long as they suit the occasion.But for the purpose of this,I would choose purple.I find that I am attached to anything purple. Name your favorite song O di egwu...I love any good gospel or inspirational songs but I can listen to Zoe's 'You make me beautiful" a thousand times. Name your favorite dessert Ok nah!as in yummy this one...thre...
8 comments
Read more

Longest Nails on the Planet!

This is Christine Walton from Las Vegas -- who has the world's longest fingernails measuring a freaky 19ft 9in (601.9cm).She has set a record in Guiness world book of records. That's 10ft 2in (309.8cm) on her left hand and 9ft 7in (292.1cm) on her right hand and the 45-year-old singer says she hasn’t cut her fingernails since 1990. Christine insists the nails don’t prevent her from living a normal life; she can still braid hair, cook and drive, however, she does confess to struggling when shopping for clothes: "I’ll see the cutest shirts, and they’ll have these skinny arms and I know that my nails would just rip straight through them, she said. "I never made a conscious decision to grow the nails, but with all my children and the music commitments I guess it was easier to let the nails grow," she added, "Then one day I look down and they’re like 9 inches long!" Her current length of the fingernails are the equivalent length of a killer whale; two...
8 comments
Read more

The Empowered woman

I think being a woman,I mean a real woman is one of the hardest things ever!. You won't agree with this only if you are not a woman,but if you are a woman,then congratulations to you.You are a mysterious being but then again this congratulation goes to the 'real woman'. The real woman is that person that makes everything difficult seem easy.She is a hard worker,faithful friend and partner,a good manager,a home maker,a lover,a confidant,a mother,a sister,a daughter,a visioneer...Someone,may say,"Yea, ok...I'm not a mother or I'm single and so does that make me not a real woman?Of course not!. Age,class,status,beauty or achievements do not define a real woman,but character does. I can't but wonder at the stories we hear these days about women.I marvel at the rate of evil perpetuated by women in our society.Prostitution is old wives tale but when women are involved in armed robbery,kidnappings,terrorism,gang rape,adultery,fraud to mention a few,then by a...
Post a Comment
Read more