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Falling in Love

Wow!it is the eight month in 2010 already.How fast this year is passing by,don't you think?Well,so sorry I have not blogged for days now,I was trying to figure out a whole lot of stuff in my life.We all have challenges,you know.Never been caught up in emotional turmoils like this past week.Simply too much for my poor heart.If you have never been in love,tales of love will naturally sound like fairy tales to you.You may even think that the talebearer made up the tales.
I must tell you though,love is a beautiful thing,most unique feeling,so perfect it's unbelievable.It simply wants to exist with that one and only one.It is just the strongest emotion ever known by man.

So many mistake love for different things.Some think when you and your partner can afford to spend time together,it means you are in love.Hey!you can actually love someone but not love their company all the time.Some think when sex is great,that is all there is to it.Well,research has shown that very few keep up their sexual pace through the years.Everyone hits lulls and sex does drop in frequency as the years go by.Sex is definitely something that should be enjoyed between each other but should not be something that is extremely important.Relationships that are based on sex as a high priority,rarely last.However,research has also shown that sex is the best part of a relationship.

When you love someone for no particular reason.When you need to think of the reasons why you love the person,you have definitely fallen in love!.At that time,nothing else matters than to make that one person happy.You believe that person more than any other person alive.You can't even believe yourself.You suddenly live in a different world apart from everyone else but that person.I am at that point in my life now where nothing else matters.Love is a beautiful thing.I must say thank you dear lord for creating this emotion,love...the strongest ever...indeed even the mighty ocean cannot quench its fire!I wish you love too.



Comments

Ogar said…
The sweetest babe...I hope this love is for me oh.It had better be cos any attempt,make I just shut up first...

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