Kudos to Lola Okoye

Call it IG rant,I call it the essence of a genuine woman,confident in her being..."I didn't really send this babe before now,but wo,I haff shange ma mind walahi!".

Lola writes:
“Good morning my beautiful people. Let me share some of my thoughts with you…Whilst some of you are busy losing sleep over someone else’s successes whether it be professional or personal, I am busy celebrating the successes of my fellow woman folk!

While you are busy tearing a woman down for being aesthetically more appealing than you think you are to the man folk, l am busy giving that woman a thumbs up for adding more colour to the woman folk.

You see I am confident and grounded and i do not need to bring another down to feel more beautiful; unlike a lot of you who hide behind your smart phones and fake IG profiles just so that you can show us how sick you are by riping another person apart in hopes that you break that person…..God is watching you o!

My sisters and brothers, age or aging is not a flaw it is actually a great privilege and i thank my God for giving me the grace to come this far. I celebrate everyday like its golden as it is a gift to be alive plus like fine wine, I get better with age and I am proud to be my age unlike a lot of you with your fake birth year but hey whatever tickles your fancy, that’s none of my business.

I only pray that God gives you all long life and wisdom. Whilst some of you fast and pray and scheme for your fellow woman friend to be unhappy in her marriage or relationship, I stand by that friend as it should be if and when the need arises.

No one’s life should be your soap opera or reality show. Face yours! No one is perfect! Stop judging. If you cant stand me, stop IG stalking me….damn! If you think i’m bothered then clearly you truly dont know me.

I stand up for the heart broken woman, I stand up for the dumbed wife, I stand up for the single mums out there, I stand up for the jilted. I stand up for the beaten and abused whether mental or physical. I stand for my fellow woman. God bless us all.”

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