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Life is beautiful!

There are no absolute finish line 4 everyone in d race of life. Our tracks are different,our lanes are different & our durations are different. D only thing we have in common is the same umpire. For instance one person graduates @ age 20 & struggles for another five years to get a job, another might graduate @ age 25 & gets a job immediately. One can marry a virgin & wait for d next decade to have d blessings of children, another lady probably after having series of abortions in her past, becomes a mum almost immediately after marriage. A fellow becomes an MD @ 38 and dies @ 56, another becomes MD @ 55 and lives to 90 what a life. life is full of twists, turns, ups & downs and many more surprises & disappointments. Life offers each one of us different opportunities. It is up to each of us to patiently prepare,wait, recognize & utilize every opportunity. We learn on the way. No one knows it all or has it better. There is a reason why we all don't fall @ d same time. Its so dat when one is down, weak & discouraged, d other who is strong, can encourage and uplift him. God never promised that the road would be easy but He promised never to leave nor forsake us. There's no competition in life so let's learn to go easy on ourselves & trust that God is working it all 4 good (even if it doesn't make sense now).I know dat there is a time 4 everything but most importantly that "it will come to pass". Whatever trials, challenges or down time, this too shall pass & in due course, u'll be up & strong again 2 lift up those who maybe down around you".Lots of things in life are by choice & not by force. Let God take the wheels in our Lives! Good morning y'all.
 Culled from Olu Fetuga's fb post.I think its a great read and thought to share here.

Comments

Osy said…
wow...what a life indeed!.this is good...well done.
D bee said…
Mehnnnn...babe,no be small thing o.Yet we worry.correct talk!.
Anonymous said…
kpom kwem...
Ogar said…
Thanks for sharing this Ama...loving it.
Anonymous said…
Gosh!...so true.

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