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THE CHOICE IS YOURS!!!.



Look out for someone whom you want to give a lifetime job in your family vision:

Do you want a guy or a real man that will be responsive to his responsibilities?

Do you want a rich man (who got his money from only God knows where) or a wealthy man who knows how to use his wealth to build up a home that would glorify God?

Do you want a rich man or a worthy man to give your precious life to?

Do you want a smooth talker that knows how to lie away his selfish moves all the days of your life; or someone who will tell you the truth even if it hurts?

Do you want a guy that can make you feel good; or a real man that can be a good husband and a father to your children?

Do you want someone who will make you cry or someone who will make you fly away from your weaknesses: to become a better person everyday of your life with him?

Do you want someone that would scold and abuse you; or someone who would mold you into an angel of bliss, peace, and harmony?

Do you want someone who could stimulate your sensitivities; or someone who could ignite your inner spirituality towards God? 

Do you want someone that could make you laugh here on earth and then end up crying in the hereafter?

The choice is yours: Wishing you everlasting joy, God’s guidance, bliss, and peace.


-Ali Baba Yakubu

Comments

Anonymous said…
good post
February 17, 2012 at 9:45 AM
CFAgbata said…
The choice is yours indeed, never let anyone tell you otherwise. Many people tend to settle for less in a man that they are about to marry often because of what the people around them say. But you must state you dissatisfaction if you don't like the person you're gonna marry cause you're going to spend the rest of your life with him.
February 17, 2012 at 9:48 AM
Ojinika Mba-Kalu said…
@Agbata,my thoughts exactly...
March 30, 2012 at 3:56 PM
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